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jane wharram posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 16, 2021
I met John in the early 1980s through our employment at Lifetime Assistance. We had mutual friends and this group would often gather at local alcoholic establishments in Brockport. John had such a caring, grateful, giving, wise soul and always remembered details of your life and asked about them, too. One of the first things I remember about John was that he always carried his datebook with him. It wasn't the 1/4 inch date planner you buy in the store, but rather his was like 2 inches thick with all sorts of papers stuck inbetween the calendar pages. Whenever we were making plans for the next time to get together John always had to check his planner which I thought was odd. Why couldn't he remember ? We're only planning a couple of days away from now so why doesn't he remember ???? Years later I recall my life taking a turn where I, too, was having to check my date planner before committing to new plans and my thoughts often were of John and his big date planner. In fact til this day some 30 plus years later with my planner in my purse or sitting on the table next to me I still think of John and it always makes me smile. God took back a true Angel and I know John's spirit will be around a long time helping his family and friends cope with their loss. And then John, after your work is done, may God rest your soul.
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Cindi Gaskin planted a tree in memory of John McCarthy Jr.
Wednesday, May 12, 2021
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John, you were a kind man and a thoughtful friend. You will be missed. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Mary A. Anderson posted a condolence
Tuesday, May 11, 2021
Jim and I have known John for 40 years and have him to thank for introducing us. John and I met while working for Lifetime Assistance. Our friendship blossomed after we went to see the movie, "Ghostbusters" and John asked Jim and I to do a small part in a play he was directing. Unfortunately the play was cancelled before we could perform it, but helped initiate our friendship. John became our social director. We went to the Opera, movies and plays. On Thursday evenings we went to Perkins for food and of course dessert. One weekend John, Jim and I went to Toronto with the Tally's. We had a wonderful time but when we crossed into the US from Canada, we had to stop due to a blizzard. We thought it was fun because it extended our mini vacation. John loved life and was so appreciative of everything, even a blizzard. He was always saying Thank You for every little thing. His life revolved around theater and Lifetime Assistance. When Jim and I moved to Florida in 1987, John would come and visit every year. We went to the Beach, Museums, Plays, Movies, and had a couple of favorite bands that we followed and became their "groupies". The first two years Jim went with us but since he couldn't get a word in edgewise, he let us party without him. John is the perfect house guest. He helps out where needed and says "This is the Best Ever" even if it is just hot dogs and beans. John loved both Jim and my families and they returned that love. Whenever, we came up to visit our families, we would go to Niagara-on-the-Lake to the Shaw Festival. The first time we went we left at 10 am and returned at 6 am the next day. There are so many wonderful memories of so many wonderful times. John had a million friends because he kept in touch with people even after they moved. He always had a smile and a kind word for all. John knows things about me that nobody else knows and I am going to miss that closeness so very, very much. John was an extremely religious man. How many people do you know that go to the Catholic church and the Methodist church on a regular basis. John helped me to grow in my faith and enjoyed going to our Lutheran Church. He was very fond of Pastor Loughran and the feeling was mutual.. When ever I was hesitant about something, I would ask myself ,"What would John do?" and I'd get the courage to go out of my comfort zone. John was an Amazing Friend and I don't know how I am going to adjust to life without him. He will be missed beyond comprehension. I know that as soon as John walked through those "Pearly Gates of Heaven", he said in a Booming voice, "THIS IS THE BEST PLACE EVER". We love you John!!
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Allison Griffin lit a candle
Monday, May 10, 2021
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Thinking of the McCarthy during this difficult time. May the fond memories of John bring you comfort and get you through the grief.
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Marcy Miceli lit a candle
Monday, May 10, 2021
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John (Mack) left an impression in my soul that will be with me until we meet again. He was the gentlest, kindest person I ever had the good fortune to call friend. Mack will be sorely missed.
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Allyson, Shawn, Lily & Tommy Ryan planted a tree in memory of John McCarthy Jr.
Sunday, May 9, 2021
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Elizabeth Bosek posted a condolence
Sunday, May 9, 2021
My heartfelt condolences to all John's family and to Turk. Mack was the kindest, most generous person I think I ever met. We shared an interest in politics, history, music, theater and film plus June birthdays that gave us plenty to talk about. He was patient with and interested in my children who were often underfoot at the store I owned and where Mack worked part-time many years ago. When the store closed we managed to stay in touch for a few years, getting together at Rohrbach's and exchanging birthday and Christmas cards. Then everyday life intervenes and suddenly it's been years. You open the paper and can't believe what you see.
"Once John was in your life, you could count on him to always be in your corner." Let me add he'll always be a bright spot in my memory and heart.
In sympathy,
Liz Bosek
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Alberta Root and family planted a tree in memory of John McCarthy Jr.
Saturday, May 8, 2021
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John always made me laugh. I will miss his smile. Our prayers are with him and his family. Bert Root and family. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The Honeck Family planted a tree in memory of John McCarthy Jr.
Saturday, May 8, 2021
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We considered John to be a special part of our family. His smile and good, gentle heart will be greatly missed. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Fran McCarthy purchased flowers
Saturday, May 8, 2021
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"..but the greatest of these is love" John's love touched so many lives and hearts. It will remain. Sharing in your immense sorrow Love always, Fran
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The family of John J. McCarthy Jr. uploaded a photo
Friday, May 7, 2021
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